Give a girl the right shoes, and she can conquer the world.
Marilyn Monroe
Ah but here's the thing: I suspect that when Marilyn said this, she was probably talking about the shoes in this shot from Some Like it Hot:
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or these from Seven Year Itch:
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(BTW - before I go on, if you have NOT seen either of these movies, you are in for a treat - they are funny, funny, funny - and The Seven Year Itch is the original Home Alone movie and perfect for a hot summer night!)
As Jane Austen would say, it is a truth universally acknowledged that the only truly sexy shoe is the shoe that has a high heel. Or so it would seem from all of the ads, the movies, and the teetering starlets and pop stars who mince around in 5" heels...
In the fashion world, the flat is the shoe of the gamine in skinny pants:
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or the French:
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As you know, I have vowed to leave the high heels to the younger, less flat-footed than I, women. But I would like to think that I have a little je ne sais quoi left in me, so as I look around at the fall shoe offerings, I search for the shoe that is both comfortable and sexy. And by the way, if you want to read an absolutely top-knotch post about whether older women can look sexy, run, don't walk to Jennifer's most recent post in her always-wonderful blog A Well-Styled Life!
Oh - and did I mention I am on a budget and would prefer not to pay an arm and a leg? But of course, I can hold out for a sale!
So far, the only shoes that have caught my fancy are actually from J Crew:
Can an oxford or ballet be sexy? I think so...
But I search on.
So I visited Net-A-Porter, which seems to demonstrate to me that the current thinking is that flat shoes are FUN shoes:
So I visited Net-A-Porter, which seems to demonstrate to me that the current thinking is that flat shoes are FUN shoes:



And the Valentinos I see EVERYWHERE on the fashion blogs are still for sale (wish I had bought stock in those! or NOT, when they are suddenly as common as the cold):


A lovely pair of Miu Mius caught my eye there, but they are not what I would describe as fall shoes:

Giorgio Armani has kind of a sexy little flat shoe, the chain-trimmed suede d'Orsay flats:
..but the price is way too rich for my blood.
Other sites that I visit leave me equally uninspired!
This year, with the closing of my local go-to shoe shop, I am forced to either leave my city and shop elsewhere or order online, which is kind of sad, not to mention difficult with shoes.
This year, with the closing of my local go-to shoe shop, I am forced to either leave my city and shop elsewhere or order online, which is kind of sad, not to mention difficult with shoes.
If you recall, I did pick up these little beaded loafers in the going-out-of business sale:
What I am really looking for is a simple, sexy flat that I can wear with dresses or skirts.
So I turn to you all: what lovely, comfortable, sexy flat shoes would YOU recommend?
I believe that flat can be sexy, now I want to believe that sexy flat can be affordable!
How about you? Anyone else on the flat shoe search or bandwagon? Would love to know. Anyone else starting to think about fall shoes?
Have a great Monday and stay safe out there!
