Thursday, February 12, 2015

Some things I am thinking about today



1) Adventures in Chapped-ness


When you have dry flaky skin everyone who works in cosmetics and skin care at the "store" has a miracle cure.

And when you google "Dry skin, very mild roscacea" and "make me look 40 again", the ads follow you from site to site until you are mourning over poor Bob Simon and some skin care regimen is right along side telling you to buy now before your face falls off...

Ema has recommended Hope in a Jar, but I can't get it till NYC.  Any other ideas?  Just tried crazy- expensive Clarins sample and no difference whatsoever.  Drinking water, eating fruits and veggies, ready to slather self in butter.  Oh wait, maybe will just use rose hip oil instead...


2) your health is everything

I have heard several stories in last few days about people I know who are sick.  And not flu sick, but sick-sick.  I am reminded that good health is a gift not to be taken lightly.  I am also reminded that wine ought to be drunk when you hear about such things as wine has very curative properties and makes you feel all warm inside...



3) You learn a lot in a taxi cab..


Taxi Driver Cartoon Repixlikeview pic
Disclaimer - this is for illustration only.  I have NEVER been drive by a taxi driver who looks like this - EVER

--especially where I live, where cab drivers are all locals and who struggle to eke out a living in our (very) small city.  I have taken two cabs in the last 24 hours, been called Ma'am four times, discussed the ungodly amount of snow eight times and discussed someone's rheumatoid arthritis and someone else's sleep problems.

Barry will tell you that this is me.  Yes, it is actually.  I have yet to meet someone (excepting violent offenders here) who don't have an interesting story to share.  Oprah says people only want to be heard and I think she is right.  And frankly, I can listen to someone's woes for the ten minutes it takes to get home.  But I also hear tales of interesting lives and people who love what they do because they get to meet people too.

4) Bob Simon

I was very sad to learn that Bob Simon was killed yesterday in NYC.  I have been a fan of Bob's for many years and always thought he was a classy, articulate, forthright journalist. He will be missed.




5) Picture Books

where the wild things are

I am taking a course on writing picture books right now and my daily homework, in addition to my other writing, is to read picture books for half an hour a day.

It is hard to be grumpy when you are reading picture books....


It seems once our kids grow up we don't buy these kinds of books anymore, but the joy getting back into all aspects of children's literature, especially the picture books, is wonderful.  With the recent announcement of the Caldecott Medals


and Newbery Awards,



now is the perfect time to catch up on a great (albeit short) read!

So that's my day.  How about yours?

xoxo wendy


Wednesday, February 11, 2015

New York New York - a brief message about blogger get-together



We are in the throes of planning for our short trip to NYC during the first week of March.

It looks like Tuesday morning March 3rd, we would be available for a cup of coffee/treat and Louise from Ingredients and Teacups and (I think!) Knityarns are in!

Anyone else who is interested in coming along we would love to meet you!  Barry is even coming along because he feels like he knows you all from your comments!

email me offside: wendymcleodmacknight at gmail if you are interested!

And yes, I will definitely share pics afterwards, if I get the appropriate sign-off from the participants!

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

Latest Obsession - Orphan Black



I know I am always late to the party, and this is a Canadian party, which makes it that much worse.

Orphan Black Season 2 Cast

As is always the case, I heard about Orphan Black from multiple sources within about four days of one another.

"Have you seen Orphan Black?  It's Amazing!"

"I'm addicted to Orphan Black!"

and then there she was - Tatiana Maslany - the lead of the series, nominated for a Screen Actors Guild Award, being interviewed by Maria Menounos on the red carpet, who raved about her performance on the show.

Enough!  I had to see this myself.

Daughter and I are currently binge-watching seasons 1 and 2 on DVD.  Season 3 is currently airing on Space here in Canada, and BBC America in the US.

It's a Canadian TV Series, and it is riveting, especially Maslany herself.

The premise (according to Wikipedia) and giving away no spoilers is as follows:

The series begins with Sarah Manning, a con artist by trade, witnessing the suicide of a woman, Beth Childs, who appears to be her doppelgänger. Sarah takes on Beth's identity and occupation as a police detective after Beth's death. During the first season, Sarah discovers that she is a clone, that she has many 'sister' clones spread throughout North America and Europe, and that someone is plotting to kill them and her.

We are at episode 5 and she has already played 5 or 6 different characters.  And dammit if she doesn't make each one seem completely different that you sometimes forget it's the same actress!

I'm not going to lie, beside our heroine Sarah, my favourite character is her gay foster brother, Felix, who cracks me up every time.


I adore this show with its byzantine plots, its crazy-good acting and its gritty feel.  I cannot recommend it enough!

And as an aside, in real life Tatiana dates Tom Cullen, who plays Lord Gillingham in Downton Abbey.  There couldn't be two more different shows.  But they make a cute couple...

tatiana maslany


Trust me when I say this is good.  And no, this is not TV for your kids...

Have a great Tuesday!  xoxo wendy

Thursday, February 5, 2015

More Thoughts on Clothes: How "Less is More" is Everywhere



Wait!  Another post on clothing from someone whose last purchase was gold linen trousers she hasn't worn yet?

Sadly, yes.

Because right after I wrote yesterday's post, I cam across this article at NYmag.com.  I'd like to say I was cool enough to be tracking all of this, but no; Facebook or my Facebook friends are cool enough for the both of us...

Anyhow, the article profiled an up and coming company called Cuyana, whose manifesto is that their clients should trim their closets down to the essentials or things they love, hopefully some of which will come from the very limited, but of excellent quality, inventory they sell.    To quote the article:

The theory is limiting the selection of items helps women to think about their wardrobes in terms of the long game, hopefully eschewing fast-fashion whim purchases for these items that are made to last.

Like Everlane, Cuyana uses a direct-to-consumer model that allows them to price their luxury, quality, goods at a lower price.

You will find a lot of Alpaca on their website (scratch, scratch just thinking of that), along with cashmere, silk and and a lot of leather goods that reminded me quite of a lot of Everlane's leather goods.


In the interview, the founders discuss the current craze amongst some (myself included to a very small degree, since if you looked at my closet it would probably still seem like a lot) around the Lean Closet Movement and even cites Marie Kondo of The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up (see this blog post for more on my preliminary experiences) as being an inspiration.  They want us to buy with intention and say "if Americans could just slow down and be a little bit more thoughtful, they'll make better purchases."  Hmmm, that's a risky marketing strategy, I think, and could be perceived by some as a tad condescending, although I think they are very sincere in their intent.

Their philosophy:

"FEWER, BETTER"
Fewer, Better is the foundation of everything we do. Product-wise, we design essential pieces for the modern woman with the most premium materials and finest craftsmanship. Lifestyle-wise, we strive to create a content destination on intentional living and elegant simplicity across all categories.


But I get them.  I mean, we all should be buying less, because buying less means we are putting money away from our retirement, or our kids or whatever and mainly because we are being a lot less taxing on our planet, and yet....





Somehow I am not finding this new technique for taking my dollar not any more satisfying than the old technique that told me if I buy X, Y or Z I will be prettier, more stylish, part of the "in crowd".  This approach makes me feel bad if I don't want to one plain black tote to "do me out".   There is also a fetishism of clothing in this approach that makes me nervous - purses and shoes and the like have become things of worship with their own spotlights in our closets.

The clothes are very plain, like Everlane's.  I have to say that is interesting to me that they want us to "invest" in their pieces.  I'm not going to lie - an investment piece to me is something that I would have to save a long time to get and which I would pray to God will last: a pair of Laboutins or Charlotte Olympias or Valentinos and if I ever sell a book I just may go there, not a green alpaca sweater.  It's all in the definition I guess.

Of course, everyone's idea of an investment piece is different and it depends on family income and age.  I don't want rich people telling me what I "ought" to buy any more than I want people who are on retainer from retailers telling me what I "ought" to buy this season.I think if I was going for simple clothes, ethically made and good quality that weren't particularly thrilling, the lower priced Everlane might be more my cup of tea.  

But I also am more uncomfortable with fast fashion now and am ignoring (mostly) the constant roll-out of CLOTHES! CLOTHES! CLOTHES! that the big brands are shoving down our throat and making us think we need.  I look in my closet and it is very clear I need nothing.





Even the fast fashion criticism around quality can't be applied neatly across the board - remember my Joe Fresh cords from yesterday - washed tons and looking spectacular!  I've had very expensive clothes not do so well.  Still - would I prefer to buy my cords from a Made in the USA or Canada company, if they were as stylish and were not prohibitively expensive?  Yes.

So where is the middle ground?  Well here I actually like Jennifer L. Scott's concept of the Ten Item Wardrobe (which isn't ten items at all, just ten core items) - I realized today that I have basically been wearing ten core items all fall and winter, 3 or 4 pairs of pants, a couple of tops, a blazer and then just changing out the shoes or the Ts or the sweater.  In her last post on The Daily Connoisseur, she discusses how the core of this season's core pieces were all from mid-range places.   Remember - I work for home - it's easier for me.

What I like about Jennifer's approach is that it doesn't assume that a) everyone has the money to purchase more expensive items or b) everyone would want to only buy one new item a season if they could only afford one high cost item.

While that may be a European thing (and frankly I think that is a bit of a myth too) it is not a North American thing and may require moving towards that approach slowly, especially as one's style is evolving.  My 22 year old daughter might pay more for a purse, but not for clothing - she doesn't even know what career she's moving into.

Jennifer realizes that many (most) people won't/can't buy the DVF dress and doesn't make you feel badly if you buy the jersey knockoff at Loft or Banana Republic.

Even the "love what you have" concept is a difficult thing, I think, for people who really love clothes, because some people really love everything about clothes and if you told them "only buy what you love" it would be open season for them!

And it also doesn't recognize the inherently human trait of wanting something new now and then, especially when you see someone you know with something new.

One thing I did really like on the Cuyana website is their Lean Closet feature, a series of posts to help us move to a less is more approach gradually.

The fatigue of consumerism is a real thing and I think businesses like Cuyana and blogs like Jennifer's are stepping in to address that.

And the amount of clothes I have given away or sold on consignment is embarrassing and makes me feel silly for buying so much in the first place and a little stupid for getting so caught up in clothes.


I would be remiss if I didn't applaud a business that has been started by two smart young women and wish them well.  But I'm still not buying Alpaca.

I am sorry this has been a rambly post!  I am thinking about all of this stuff these days and I would love to know if anyone else has been thinking differently about their clothing and this whole less is more approach.  Do you think it is an effective marketing strategy?


xoxo wendy



Wednesday, February 4, 2015

Style Wednesday: Winter Style Doldrums and where (wear!) to buy simple clothes?


I don't know about you, but I am not enjoying:

a) the wonderful pictures of bloggers and friends who are frolicking down south; and
b) the wonderful pictures of blogger friends who live in warm climates (yes, I am talking to you, the lovely Jennifer and the lovely Kim!)

The exclusion to this are the "Down Unders" - they'll get theirs soon enough... :-)


Those of us trudging through -28 temperatures and record snowfalls are dreaming of wearing anything but wool right now, but frankly that's all we can wear.

In the last two weeks I have worn my Joe Fresh winter white cords 6 times...  they keep me so warm...

joe_fresh_jeans-white-after-labour-day


My happy uniform of jeans and cords and JCrew long sleeve cashmere tees layered over tshirts is even wearing me down these days, so I have decided to do some dreaming.  Many things I like in my wardrobe are being by-passed these days; what was warm enough to wear in early December is not making the cut in Forevuary.

I have also noted with interest my mistakes of last fall, although happily, they were limited (likely due to the fact I bought so little).  The minimalist/yoga styling of the Brynn Walker dress I purchased last fall has been worn but twice; I never get excited about wearing it, despite the fact that it is comfortable and flattering on





And while my November clothing purge was epic and made me happy, I see that I am still finding my style sea legs here in my 50s.

What I am especially seeing now is that I am no longer interested in trends.

Truthfully, I am not jumping on anything right now as I have no interest in shopping, but I know when I dig out my spring things, whenever that actually happens, I will want to add a couple of things to the list.  And there is my upcoming trip to New York where something will spring out at me!

The conundrum is always this for me: the things I like the looks of versus the things I will actually where, visually demonstrated below:


derek lamZsaZsa Bellagio.....love the colors


The reality is that most embellishments simply overwhelm me, except if they are on my feet or on my ears.

And I cannot justifying buying or dressing for a life I no longer have - I think I have only two pairs of fancy pants left.  I only have one suit left and that's it - no interest in getting another.

When I look now at my Styles I love Pinterest Board, I see lots I adore, but in reality would mostly just wear these kinds of things:

back to black.  I was wearing this outfit (with socks and loafers today!


Edna stretch-silk satin and silk-crepe dress by Diane von Furstenberg

Eileen Fisher Now Making Clothes You May Want To Wear (PHOTOS)



Dress


Mostly, what I want is comfortable chic.  I am discovering that this is a hard category (at least for me) to shop within - it is so easy to get swallowed or to get too sloppy.

I did check out the most recent J Crew rollout, but what caught my eye was not any of the fun stuff, but these featherweight cashmere cardigans:



And this Theory dress is very appealing:




I can't tell if this is age, lifestyle or simply fashion-fatigue related, but my clothing purchase wishlist seems to veering towards Meg Ryan in You've Got Mail.




But here's my question - what brands carry this kind of very simple style, besides Theory and Emerson Fry (whose aesthetic I somewhat adore but who seems to cut their clothing for someone who is not me).

I have been checking various labels and am not being very inspired, but I know you all have lots better mojo than me when it comes to this kind of thing.

All I know is that 7 years ago, you could have pegged me for a J Crew girl the whole way, with Theory suits at work.  And while I will never give up the crew, I am no longer that person, due to so many reasons.

I am also not the corporate woman I was.

And it turns out I am not as funky as I thought either.

My friend Louise wrote recently about how going to Parsons has broken her of J Crew but also made her realize she's no longer sure what her style is.  I can relate, although check out the exquisite dress in that blog post of hers - Louise - that is REALLY my style!

Maybe, I need to start having some things made!

Maybe I need to just wait for Louise to graduate and start her own line!

I will tell you one thing I NEVER get tired of:

this skirt by Ralph Lauren!  Whenever I pass it on my Pinterest Board I swoon.

Ralph Lauren

Surely, between Louise and Ralph I would be all set?

How about you?  Anyone else in the same boat these days?

xoxo wendy

Tuesday, February 3, 2015

Miss Lee's second book - what do you think?


The world was atwitter today with the announcement that Harper Lee was going to publish her second novel, 50 years after To Kill a Mockingbird.




The book, titled Go Set a Watchman, will be released by HarperCollins this coming July.  It features the iconic character of Scout as an adult.

Lee wrote the book in the 1950s and never attempted to get it published.  It was "rediscovered" recently and you can imagine the interest and enthusiasm the announcement has created.

Personally, I am excited to read the book, but I am also leery.

The feisty woman in the rocker above is an old lady now, one whom many claim is suffering from dementia.



I was already seeing debate online today by people who wonder if she isn't being pressured into publishing this book, which for decades the author herself didn't think was worth publishing.

Pure speculation, but I also wonder about the editing process and Lee's ability to participate in it.  

HarperCollins certainly caught the literary world by surprise today, which is a real coup, that's for sure.

As for me, I would take a cast-aside manuscript by Harper Lee over much of the drivel currently being published, including a book which is soon to be released as a movie, which I am so sick of hearing about I refuse to even use its name anymore.  I know, I am alone in that... sigh...

Have a great Tuesday evening!

xoxo wendy

Saturday, January 31, 2015

Saturday Mash-up


Where has the month gone?

It's been lived in front of my computer, that's for sure!  I am now working on draft 3 of my new novel.  I am sure I need at least three more drafts until it is worth sending to my agent for feedback.

I am reminded again and again that writing is hard work.  Maybe not for Stephen King, but for the rest of us mortals - yes!



No complaints here, but it is nice to share one's challenges!

We are currently experiencing our second blizzard of the week.



Even Mr. Squirrel has been forced to make a tunnel from his home-under-the-deck, which heretofore shall be renamed Squirrel Manor, since everyone deserves to have a nice name for their house and Toad Hall was taken...


Here he is waiting for the goldfinches and redpolls to return and rain sunflower chips down
at his little head.  Sort of like I always imagined would happen at Willie Wonka's...

Is this his front or back door?  Only the Jolly Postman knows for certain!

The snow is getting quite bothersome, so Barry is off to snowblow one last time (for today!)



In the dead of winter, we all benefit from colour.  I am not shopping at all these days, out of post-Christmas fatigue and realizing that what I really need is a new dress, but since I don't have a place to wear said new dress right now, it can wait.

Instead of buying things I don't need, I am buying only useful things.

Pink Tulips fit into this category as they fall within the Health category of the family budget and are a well spent $7 at the grocery store:





 Seeing the snowscape through the undulating stems of a tulip reminds me that all things can be endured so long as we can see the beauty.




And I have been reading and watching movies.  Things I have loved this past month:

The Darkest Part of the Forest by Holly Black.

Front Cover

I am writing a Young Adult Fantasy.  At various times of every single day I have questioned my common sense in doing so, since it involves world building of a higher order than a contemporary book.  But then I read Holly Black's new book and I was reminded that when done well, they can be amazing!

Last night we watched the small indie movie In a World, written and directed by Lake Bell.

In a World... (2013) Poster

I laughed out loud so many times during this movie.  Take a look at the trailer:




Oh and I finally read Cheryl Strayed's Wild this month.



Sure it was inspirational, but frankly for someone like myself who suffers from bad feet, it was a cautionary tale of why one needs to vacation in places with cafes and public transportation.  I expect Jody to slap me upside the head for that one!


Tonight we are off to a good friend's 60th birthday party.  I am all for birthday parties.  And turning 60.  And 70. And 80.  And so on and so on.  The older I get the more I realize I have about three lifetimes worth of stuff to get done.  This may be a Capricorn fault, I am not sure.

So tomorrow we go into the love month, which, when it ends, finds me in New York City.  Yee haw!

xoxo wendy